Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Poverty in Manipur

Poverty Pictures


Poverty is one issue which the people and the Government have been struggling for years. It is a state wherein one is unable to earn enough wage to sustain himself and his family in terms of food, shelter, clothing and health. A person in poverty is not only deprived of health and productive standards of living but is incapable of harnessing all opportunities due to lack of sufficient resources.

If questioned, what is responsible for this serious issue? There is not a single reason to which we can solely blame on. One may cite numerous reasons and another may blame on a particular one. But the truth is that each and every element in our society equally contributes to what the State is today. All in all, poverty can be attributed to numerous factors each of which considerably contributes to this issue. Some of the chief causes of poverty in Manipur are lack of education, political shambles, lack of infrastructural growth, etc.

To alleviate poverty in Manipur, what we need to do is not sort out what are the causes and fix them (which will only shift one’s attention to the causes and not to the overall elimination of poverty whose cause is not just one), but to understand the theorem of poverty before such a step of alleviating it can be conducted. In a wider view, Poverty can be defined as a result of the inability of a society to participate in the process of economic “give and take”.

By education, it doesn’t mean educating the children so that they can grow up and acquire a secure job in future (I said this, since most people conceive that education is the art of reading and writing and then a government job only). By educating the masses, I meant to imply that one should be taught and should have applicable ideas in his or her own field so that they can gain the most of what they are good in. A farmer should have enough knowledge of his farm, the type of soil, suitable crop, seasons, etc. Likewise, a fisherman, dairy farmer, etc. should be well informed of what their trade is and how to gain maximum benefit from it.

Another big issue contributing to the State’s poverty is state’s failing administration rather politics. The states administration is and has always been considered the main cause to our poverty. It is often said that the rich remains rich and the poor, poor. It is true that politics plays a great role in bringing down the state to its state and we are also aware that we all are equally responsible for the same. Do you ever think of abstaining from what the “fighters for the crown” offer you in return for your valuable vote? Have you ever considered what, if we elect a more able not rich leader? No! We all run crazy after the green notes.

Infrastructure also has a great role in bringing down the level of poverty in a State. As for instance, we can quote the difference between America and Japan. America though with enough resources (mineral, land and other resources) unlike Japan (a Country low in resources) houses more poverty stricken people. The reason is that Japan is much advanced in infrastructure.

We can hardly see any growth of infrastructure in Manipur which we believe would highly bring about a positive change in the State’s wealth and thereby poverty. Again, who are we going to blame for the same, we ourselves or the states’ leader or the Government of India? Going down to the root of the problem will be an impossible task. We should therefore stop playing “blame game” but take up steps which will be of help.

Overall, poverty is a social issue which is prompted by numerous reasons of which we are well aware of. Unless we agree to ourselves being responsible for it and take up measures to eliminate it, poverty is going to be with us for long.

Black by Okelo Yaikhom

okelo yaikhom

In this land where the virtue of Ahimsa By our Mahatma Gandhiji ventures.. but now the non-violence will be ashamed today...

The land of glory one's fight against the human rights and symbol of equality are now becoming a land of corruption and ill-treating people with their unlawful ideas and corrupted laws forcing us to beg and kneel...

On November 4 , 2010 Our ECHE IROM SHARMILA had entered 10th. Year of her fast unto death journey demanding withdrawal of Armed Forces (Special Powers) Act,1958 (AFSPA ) which otherwise is known as draconian law in Manipur State and other part of the country.

The massacre of innocents mind, the killing of many civilians unknown are growing day by day owing to their righteous kill by the army of darkness at Manipur.. We are seeing it in front of our weary eyes helplessly...

Now is a crucial time and right time for us to wake up and follow the path She is willing to exercise.. It's not an easy task for us but if we don't understand the very reason of her fasting then we will never know the reason behind her everlasting and unconditional fasting which is perhaps a move to abolish this inhumanity prevailing in the state and elsewhere..

Our evil generation where people can eat people because of their human wants needs an immediate experience of a WAKE UP CALL.. WAKE UP WAKE UP WAKE UP!!!!
we hear everyday the voice Whispering in our soul "I shall never stop my fasting.. Happy day will come one day"
Its Now Or Never........! 

Inputs by Okelo Yaikhom

Eche!!



A song dedicated to Irom Sharmila Chanu, for her utter dedication to recover the peace and harmony the state once enjoyed. Originally written and sung by Ronid Akhu Chingangbam or Imphal Talkies and the Howlers. In this video, on the rhythm is Paikhomba Thangjam, on the lead is Okelo Yaikhom and the vocalist is me (Naresh Khoisnam).

Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Get Over Your Fear of Rejection


proposing a girl


Ever found yourself in a situation when you are unable to express your feeling due to the fear of getting rejected and someone grabbed the opportunity? If you have, make up your mind that the next time you come across such situation, you will get over it.

To start with, see the difference between we boys an the Girls. They are weak, short sighted and they run after what they crave for,. It can be in the form of money, sex and sometimes your intellect. Money, we can earn it; Sex, we are loaded with it and Intellect, I know I have it, what about you? Take the advantage of their being short sighted. If you think you really like her, first, let her know you are interested in her. Once she knows that, you can start your mission to make her yours (unless she's someone Else's)

Know this, once a girl falls in love, she blindly trust what her lover says so be tactful with your words. Where were we? Yes, she now knows that you are interested in her. Now, you should look for any signs that proves that she is single. Signs which prove that the girl is definitely not single are:
  • hooked up on the cell phone at all times
  • showing least interest to the outside world
  • crying over the phone
  • shouting over the phone and
  • big stout person preferably male always escorting her
If she is not single, leave her for you wouldn't like to hurt your brothers. If she is not but shows keen interest in you, carry on. Approach her, talk to her. Start casually for it is suggested that you should not express your feelings until you have started sharing certain personal secrets. (warning: never make up stories, for you may end up neck-deep in trouble in future if she questions you about that story you made up. In this case, girls have bigger brains). The next move, exchange numbers, once you get her number, don't call instantly, wait for a day or two. Call her when she least expect your call. The first time you call her, make the conversation brief. “hey how are you?” “I'm fine” “ how's your tutorial class going on” etc. etc...

You can gradually increase your duration of call, start meeting her often ensuring that your meeting appears like a mere coincidence to her. If she shows no hesitation in speaking to you or attending to your call, you can wittily make your move. The proposal.

Call her and ask her to meet up. Be diplomatic in the way you propose her, play with your words, envelop her conscience with lovely sweet words and promises (to be fulfilled later) and tell her what you wanted to tell her. If she rejects, say, “not a problem, there is no obligation that you should accept my proposal, take your time, I know you are making a decision related to your life, I respect it” “think about it and do let me know”. After saying this, leave her alone. She'll for sure call in a day or two.

If she still says “NO” change your train timing and apply the same to the girl sitting in front of you.

The then Me!!!

Why am I always under sheer pressure from every side, family, work, girlfriend (ex perhaps) and my conscience too? Is it good to compromise with what I want for the sake of their consent and live a miserable life inside? Is this a normal thing in the life of a lower middle class struggling boy of 23? Shall I tolerate all their nudges and nagging or shall I step into my own shoes and hurt their feelings?

The question that rings in my mind frequently is, am I still a kid who should always keep on doing things my elders want? I’m not a puppet; I have my life and my aims. It’s true that I hardly share what I aspire to be in life to my elders, the reason behind being my fear of being mocked and jeered for my sky-high ambition.
Living life here in Delhi is a “lesson learnt” to me. Without enough support from family and looked after by my two generous aunts, I at times felt that I have depended on my aunts too much and would like to go out job seeking so that I can at least stand on my own and be independent. I finally got a job but this hardly reconciles the decision-conflict I have with my elders.

And coming to my girlfriend (ex), she once used to be my moral support whenever I had problems in my family, in studies and in my profession. I, not knowing that I am someone not financially stable, went on planning future-ahead together with a least knowledge that she is bound to leave me sooner or later. A month back from today (25th November 2010) she found a better match [financially stable and an ambitious person preparing for UPSC exam(s)] and left me alone.

One thing I came to know from the life I have lived till now is that, I have been living someone’s life not my own. The frequent nagging of my family and whosoever I am associated with is a hurdle designed by the Almighty to help me become a stronger being.

It’s obvious that you’ll presume that my emotions are at work when I’m drafting this piece. You are right! I need help and suggestions. Suggest what I should do and what I shouldn’t keeping in view that I work and study at the same time and I am far from Manipur (the place where I was born).